麻烦不再是麻烦
TheTroublesomeMattersAreNotMatters
Whenwegraduallygrowup，wemayclearlyrealizethatallthethingswelongforyesterdayarejustturnouttobethecontrary。Webelievewecanstickwithourfriendsforever，butactuallywearenot；wesaywewouldneverforgetallthebeautifulthings，however，willingornow，wedo；then，whataboutthosevows？Aretheystilllyingthere？Never！Thoughwemaysometimeswonderintheoldgooddays，wehavetocomebacktotheearththissecondornext。
YesterdayIreadanarticle，itmentionedaboutpast，presentandfuture。Idon‘thavemuchdeepimpressiononthelasttwo。Butforthepastpart，Ihavethesamevoice。Allthehumanbeingshavethetendencytohunginoldmemoriesandnoneofuswillingtodropit。Weknowthefactthatthosepassedthingswouldneverexistanymore，butwedon‘thavethecouragetotakeit，andwearenotbraveenoughtofaceit。WemustconvinceourselvesthatPastIsPast。Themoreyouvaluetheoldthings，themorelikelyyouwilllostyourprominentthings。Leaveanappropriateroominyourhearttothosethingsandletthemundergoorunder-grow。
OnceIwasreallylivedintheseaofmemories，andialwaysponderedinthosesorrows。Somehowtheonlyresultislostme。Now，IcaneasilyknowthatiammerelywhoIamthisminute。Thereisnoneedformetorememberthosemeaninglessthings。IknowthosewhoIknew10yearsagoaretotallystrangersformenowandevenneverpickuptheirnamesinmyrestlife。IhavetoclaimthatthosewhoIhated5yearsagonowhavenoinfluencetowardme；Iwon‘ttreatthemasmydeadlyenemiesanymore。Itwastesmyenergyandtime。
NowonderthatwhenIgraduatefromthisschoolandsteptothenextlifejourney，Iwouldforgettoday‘ssocalledunforgettablethings。Acceptitornot，wefindthegapbetweenourfriends，oldornew，andusaredeeperanddeeper。Iknowsomedaywemayturntobethemostfamiliarstrangers。Graduallyyouwouldbeaccustomedthelifethatwithnocalling，notextmessageandnoanyone‘scompany。
Tosomeextent，lifeisalonelyjourney。Incaseweshouldbehurtsomeday，weoughttogetourselvesprepared。Thewholethingsthissecondbeforearepast。Weneedpastasourmilestonewhilewedon’tneeditblocksournewlife。
Neverlyinginthesorrowseasanylonger，neverleadamemorylifeandneverrelyonothersforabetterfuture。Lifeisaonewayjourney，noonecouldsailplaininit。Mixtureloneliness，sorrows，happiness，challenges。。。intothislifebox。
Ilongforabrightfuture，Ivalueallmyfriends，iacceptwhatthefutureinstoreforme。
ThoughifailinsomeoftheEnglishfield，butnowIunderstandthatasmallmistakeorevenacarelessoverlookwouldcostmemoretimeandstruggletofillthehole。Idon‘twannaithappenagain，soIwilltryhardtoreachmygoals，time，pleasureorwhateverneedtobesacrificedneedtobe。
Allthetroublesomemattersarejustwaitingfortherighttimetosettleit！